How divorce papers are served

Service by email and post, what happens if your spouse ignores it, and the alternatives available from the court.

Updated 19 August 2026·5 min read
Written by CalmSplit Editorial TeamReviewed by Ramani GillLast reviewed 19 August 2026England & Wales

Service simply means giving your spouse formal notice of the application. The court usually does it for you by email and post.

If there is no acknowledgement

  1. Ask the court to try again at a different address or email.
  2. Instruct a process server for personal service and a certificate.
  3. Apply for deemed service where you can prove the papers arrived.
  4. Apply for alternative service, for example by a messaging app or a relative's address.
  5. As a last resort, apply to dispense with service entirely.

This article is general information about the law of England and Wales, not legal advice. For advice on your situation, speak to a solicitor.

Frequently asked questions

Can I hand the papers over myself? ▼

No. You cannot personally serve your own divorce application.

How long does it add? ▼

Usually a few weeks, longer if the address is unknown.

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