Grandparents and contact after a separation

Grandparents do not have automatic rights, but they can apply for permission to seek a child arrangements order.

Updated 19 August 2026·5 min read
Written by CalmSplit Editorial TeamReviewed by Ramani GillLast reviewed 19 August 2026England & Wales

In England & Wales grandparents have no automatic right to contact, but the courts recognise the value of that relationship and applications are frequently successful.

The two stage route

  1. Apply for permission (leave) to make an application, unless the child has lived with you for a qualifying period.
  2. If permission is granted, apply for a child arrangements order for contact.

Before court

  • Try direct contact with the parents in writing, calmly and without blame.
  • Consider mediation, which is far cheaper and faster.
  • Keep a record of the contact that took place before it stopped.

This article is general information about the law of England and Wales, not legal advice. For advice on your situation, speak to a solicitor.

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Frequently asked questions

Is permission usually granted? ▼

Where there was a genuine existing relationship with the child, courts commonly grant it.

Do I need a MIAM? ▼

Yes, in most cases the mediation meeting requirement applies to grandparents too.

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