Getting divorced without a solicitor

When a DIY or guided divorce is genuinely safe, when it is not, and how to get legal input only where it adds value.

Updated 19 August 2026·6 min read
Written by CalmSplit Editorial TeamReviewed by Ramani GillLast reviewed 19 August 2026England & Wales

Most uncontested divorces are administrative. The paperwork is standardised and the court will not ask you to argue anything. That is why so many people complete it without a solicitor.

Safe to do yourself

  • The marriage is over and neither of you disputes it.
  • You both know where each other lives.
  • Assets are modest and you broadly agree how to split them.

Get advice if

  • There are significant pensions, a business, or assets held abroad.
  • One of you has far greater knowledge of the finances than the other.
  • There is abuse, coercion, or you feel unable to negotiate freely.

A middle path

CalmSplit prepares your documents from plain-English questions for £159, and you can add an independent solicitor review of a financial order if you want a legal check on the outcome. CalmSplit is a self-help platform, not a law firm.

This article is general information about the law of England and Wales, not legal advice. For advice on your situation, speak to a solicitor.

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Frequently asked questions

Will the court treat me differently? ▼

No. Acting for yourself is common and the process is designed for it.

Can one solicitor advise us both? ▼

No. Your interests conflict in law, so a solicitor can only advise one of you.

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