Divorce when your spouse lives abroad

Written by CalmSplit Editorial TeamReviewed by Ramani GillLast reviewed 13 August 2026England & Wales

You can often apply for divorce in England and Wales even though your spouse lives in another country, provided you have a sufficient connection here. The main practical issue is serving the application on them abroad, which can take longer.

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  • Jurisdiction usually depends on habitual residence or domicile, not your spouse's location
  • Service abroad is possible but can add time
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Can the court here deal with it?

The courts of England and Wales can normally deal with a divorce where one of you is habitually resident or domiciled here. Being married abroad, or your spouse living abroad, does not by itself prevent an application.

Serving the application overseas

  • Service by email is often possible where the court permits it
  • Postal service abroad can take several weeks
  • Some countries require service through official channels
  • If your spouse acknowledges the application, everything moves faster

When to take advice

If divorce proceedings could also be started in another country, the order in which applications are made can matter. That is a situation where independent legal advice is worth taking.

Frequently asked questions

No. Jurisdiction can be based on your own connection with England and Wales.

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