These two processes are connected but separate. Your divorce does not by itself decide who keeps what.
Should I sort finances before or after divorce?
In practice, alongside. You can begin the divorce straight away, negotiate finances during the 20-week wait, and have a consent order approved after the conditional order but before the final order. Leaving finances entirely until after the divorce is possible but riskier.
CalmSplit takes care of the divorce itself: you answer plain-English questions online and we prepare and manage your application to HMCTS for a one-off £159 per person. Your financial arrangements are handled separately.
- The divorce ends the marriage. It does not divide your money or property
- £159 one-off per person for the divorce, court fee paid separately to HMCTS
- CalmSplit is a self-help platform, not a law firm. Independent solicitor referrals are available
One-off CalmSplit fee. HMCTS court fees are paid separately to the court.
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See how it worksRunning them side by side
- Weeks 1 to 20: divorce progresses, you disclose and negotiate finances
- After the conditional order: a consent order can be submitted for approval
- Week 26 onwards: apply for the final order, ideally with finances resolved
Risks of leaving finances until later
- Claims stay open until a court order is made
- Remarriage can bar certain claims
- Assets change in value and disclosure gets harder over time
Two separate processes
It helps to keep two things apart. Ending your marriage is a court process that follows a fixed timetable and does not look at your finances. Sorting your finances is about who keeps what: the home, savings, pensions and debts. You can run them side by side, but one does not automatically decide the other.
- Ending your marriage: the divorce application, conditional order and final order
- Sorting your finances: an agreement between you, and usually a financial court order to make it binding
- CalmSplit's £159 fee covers the divorce itself, not a financial settlement
When to get advice
Consider independent legal or financial advice where there are pensions of real value, a business, complex property, significant debts, or where you are unsure whether what you have agreed is reasonable. CalmSplit can refer you to an independent solicitor. That does not change your £159 CalmSplit fee, and we do not take a fee for the referral.
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