How to separate amicably
Separation has no formal legal step in England and Wales. You are separated when you decide the relationship is over, so the practical work is agreeing living arrangements, money and time with children.
CalmSplit can prepare a separation agreement while you decide, and the divorce application itself for £159 per person when you are ready.
- No court process is needed to separate
- A separation agreement records what you have agreed
- Divorce can follow whenever you are ready
One-off CalmSplit fee. HMCTS court fees are paid separately to the court.
Check suitabilityStart free. You do not need to involve your spouse to begin, and you can invite them later where appropriate. £159 one-off when you are ready.
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- Agree who lives where, and for how long
- List income, outgoings, debts, savings and pensions
- Decide how bills and the mortgage will be paid meanwhile
- Agree a pattern for time with the children
- Tell only the people who need to know, together where possible
Separation agreement or wait?
A separation agreement is not automatically binding but carries weight and can be converted into a consent order once divorce proceedings start. It is useful if you will be separated for a while.
Moving on to divorce
There is no minimum separation period. You can apply for divorce as soon as you have been married a year and you accept the marriage has broken down.
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