What happens after you file for divorce

Step by step from the moment your application is issued: service, acknowledgement, the reflection period, Conditional Order and Final Order.

Updated 19 August 2026·6 min read
Written by CalmSplit Editorial TeamReviewed by Ramani GillLast reviewed 19 August 2026England & Wales

Filing feels like the big moment, but it is really the start of an administrative sequence. Knowing the order of events removes most of the anxiety.

The sequence

  1. The court issues your application and sends it to your spouse (service).
  2. Your spouse files an Acknowledgement of Service, usually within 14 days.
  3. The 20 week reflection period runs from the issue date.
  4. You apply for the Conditional Order and a judge checks the paperwork.
  5. After 6 weeks and 1 day you apply for the Final Order, which ends the marriage.

If your spouse ignores it

Non-response does not stop the divorce. You can prove service in other ways, ask for deemed service, or instruct a process server. It adds weeks, not months, in most cases.

This article is general information about the law of England and Wales, not legal advice. For advice on your situation, speak to a solicitor.

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Frequently asked questions

Do I have to go to a hearing? ▼

Not in a straightforward uncontested divorce. It is dealt with on paper.

Can my spouse refuse the divorce? ▼

No. Under no-fault law a divorce cannot be defended except on narrow legal grounds such as jurisdiction.

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