Friendly divorce in the UK
A friendly divorce is simply an undefended no-fault divorce where neither of you is blaming the other. Nothing in the law requires conflict, and most divorces are now dealt with entirely on paper.
CalmSplit turns the paperwork into plain-English questions, prepares your application for HMCTS and keeps both of you informed. £159 per person, one-off.
- No blame is required or even allowed as a reason
- No hearings in an undefended divorce
- Solicitors only where you genuinely want advice
One-off CalmSplit fee. HMCTS court fees are paid separately to the court.
Check suitabilityStart free. You do not need to involve your spouse to begin, and you can invite them later where appropriate. £159 one-off when you are ready.
See how it worksWhat makes a divorce friendly
- Agreeing the marriage is over before you apply
- Deciding together whether to apply jointly or as a sole applicant
- Being open about finances so nothing has to be forced out
- Keeping conversations about money and children separate from the divorce itself
Joint or sole?
A joint application signals cooperation but relies on both of you completing steps on time. A sole application is often faster and can still be entirely amicable, because there is no allegation to defend.
Where friendly divorces still need care
Ending the marriage does not end financial claims. A consent order or clean break order records what you agreed, so a friendly separation stays settled years later.
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