Divorce with a baby
Divorcing with a baby follows exactly the same legal process. The real work is agreeing a routine that suits a very young child, which is handled separately from the divorce itself.
CalmSplit prepares the divorce paperwork for a one-off £159 and can prepare a parenting plan or child arrangements application where you need one.
- The divorce does not decide arrangements for your child
- Short, frequent contact usually suits babies best
- Child maintenance is separate and can be calculated online
One-off CalmSplit fee. HMCTS court fees are paid separately to the court.
See if CalmSplit suits youIf you have decided to end your marriage, the application itself can be prepared online. Start free, £159 one-off when you are ready.
See how it worksWhat works for very young children
- Frequent, shorter time with each parent rather than long blocks
- Consistency of feeding, sleeping and nap routines across both homes
- Building up overnight stays gradually
- Shared written notes on feeds, medication and milestones
Money while childcare costs are high
Childcare, reduced working hours and housing needs all feature in financial discussions. Child maintenance is dealt with by the Child Maintenance Service formula rather than in the divorce.
If you cannot agree
Mediation is the usual next step. If that does not resolve it, a child arrangements application can be prepared, and CalmSplit offers that as a separate service.
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