Can I get engaged before my divorce is final?

Written by CalmSplit Editorial TeamReviewed by Ramani GillLast reviewed 13 August 2026England & Wales

Yes. An engagement has no legal status in England and Wales, so you can get engaged at any time. You cannot marry until the Final Order has been made.

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  • An engagement is not a legal contract here
  • Marriage requires the Final Order
  • Give notice of marriage only once you have it
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Practical points

  • You cannot give notice of marriage while still married
  • Register offices often ask for the Final Order at the notice stage
  • Allow buffer time between the expected Final Order and the wedding
  • Consider a financial order before the new marriage

Will it affect the divorce?

No. The divorce is no-fault and the court does not ask about new relationships. It can be relevant to financial negotiations, particularly maintenance.

Children and timing

Where children are involved, telling the other parent before wider announcements usually keeps arrangements calm.

Frequently asked questions

A gift to you is generally yours, but include it in disclosure if significant.

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